June 29th,2012 at 12:04 AM
By Nelson | Macedonia (FYR)
, I need to stress the word shloud . Women often make the mistake of assuming that sex = relationship. It's very possible that this guy is just viewing you as a casual hook up. He may like the regular sex and having someone to hang out with, but at the same time he may not see anything long term with you. If you've been doing this routine for more than a month, it is reasonable for you to expect some sort of committment. You both need to be on the same page. If he doesn't see anything long term with you, then you shloudn't waste your time on him. It doesn't take that long to decide if you want to be with someone. I'm a mid-30 s guy and I can tell you that in my experience, when I've procrastinated about committing to a woman it's ALWAYS because I'm not totally into her and not sure that I really want to be with her. She may be a great person and I might be hoping to feel something more, but the truth is that I never will. With my last girlfriend I knew after our first date that she was the one I wanted to be wtih it happened literally that quickly. So to the ladies out there, PLEASE don't waste your time with a guy who keeps you on the hook for months on end. If he is truly into you, he won't have a problem committing to you.