I joined this website to find every communication with any lady costs money...the part that makes me feel its fake is this... I put my profile and I get 3 ladies every day....exactly 3 sending me letters wanting correspondence. All are model quality and im older and have been on other sites...there is no way this may bathing beauties want me. I feel sure the "letters" are being sent from the web host to generate cash. Also in their Admirere mails "how it works" tab it reads the following... "Any lady interested in you will first send you a letter, called "Admirer Mail". In the letter she will briefly introduce herself and tell you what she's looking for in a potential match. If you wish to express interest in her, we suggest send her a mail. It is absolutely FREE!" When you try to reply you cant because you have no credits unless you paid. It is not FREE as stated on their website...if it looks and feels too good to be true ...it probably is. This site to me is nothing but a scam money maker and I believe most of the girls letters and pictures are not real ladies looking for love.