Learn Thai Dating Culture to Date a Thai Girl

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Many lonely foreigners visit Thailand every year with the objective of finding a Thai girl as life partner, and Thailand has quite a number of cross-cultural families that are living happily within the country. If you also have the same dream, you must learn some knowledge about Thai lifestyle, dating culture, language, traditions and customs.

Thai dating culture is important because it demonstrates the importance of Thai girls' reputations. For example, they guard their reputations by being cautious about entering into physical relationships with their dating partners, and their dowry, the money the groom traditionally gives their family, depends on whether they have good reputations. Following is more details about Thai culture.

Social Expectations

Thai families typically expect that a man dating a Thai woman should support that woman and her entire family. He must be financially stable because he has an important responsibility to them. A significant portion of Thai people live in extreme poverty, which means that they believe their daughter's marriage should bring money to them. If a women likes a man she is dating, she brings him home to meet the family. The family sizes the man up and discussing the dowry with him.


The dowry is an ancient tradition termed sinsod. The concept of sinsod ensures that a woman does not marry below her class. It means that the potential husband offers to pay the bride's family a set sum of money for her hand in marriage. The sum of money depends on the earning potential of the man and the reputation of the bride. It's reported that dowries have become less prominent in modern Thai culture. Some families give the dowry to the married couple as a wedding gift. Others do not expect a dowry at all.

Dating Rituals

The Thai dating culture is unique and different from other Asian dating cultures. It does not expect couples to go into arranged marriages. Couples typically have their say in who their marriage partner is. Dating in Thai culture is for the women to decide whether the men are quality partners. Dates serve as tests for the women to consider the men's character.

Physical Intimacy

Most Thai girls are shy and monogamous. They are significantly concerned with the protection of their reputations, which means that they might not be interested in having sexual experiences during dating. The first phase of dating is important because they restrain themselves from having physical contact beyond sitting close to each other. Although they might touch their date's hands, they typically would refrain from touching legs and personal parts. They consider the head a sacred part of the body, which means that men cannot touch women's heads without their approval. People do not typically sleep together unless their relationship is nearing marriage.


The predominant faith in Thailand is Buddhism. Although Buddhist monks do not hold weddings, spiritually is important to couples who wed. One spiritual Thai tradition is the Merit Gift. It is a donation to the local Buddhist temple for the monks to hold a ceremony blessing the wedding. Some might give gifts in the bride's name to the Buddhist temple to show respect for her spiritual beliefs.

What's more, Thai girls generally admire men who are caring, sensitive and responsible. Affection can be displayed by presenting small and inexpensive gifts occasionally or by inviting to make a merit at a local temple. Thai girls prefer men who respect their individuality, and they are naturally conservative and caring in nature and prefer men who genuinely love them. Expressing love is a vital part in dating a Thai woman.

3 Comments on this Dating Article
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April 22nd,2011 at 8:16 AM
By AUUU | Australia
I am from Australia and my religion is Buddhism. It's important to me that my other part has the same faith with me. So I want to seek a Thai wife. I agree with the point mentioned above that Thai families typically expect that a man dating a Thai woman should support that woman and her entire family. And I don't mind.
November 28th,2011 at 12:22 PM
By Cinderella | Mexico
As Charlie Sheen says, this atirlce is “WINNING!”
November 28th,2011 at 12:22 PM
By Jaylon | Mayotte (France)
Thanks guys, I just about lost it loionkg for this.
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